Recently, I was sitting at my computer with a list of “to do’s” striving to get as many things done as possible by barreling through the list at break-neck speed. Yet, my mind kept wandering. I mean, I was having serious issues focusing. I don’t know if it was the deliciously warm, sunny weather that was begging me to go take a book and read outside or what, but I was distracted.
Yet, I still had many things I needed to finish. What to do? You may have guessed that I grabbed the book and headed outdoors.
Later that same day, I found myself thinking about how being busy keeps us and our kids from enjoying some of the simplest pleasures in life like reading.
The playgroups, the enrichment classes, preschool, dvds, and on and on. We are so wired, and our kids are too. I know we’ve heard the stories about over-scheduled kids, but the fear of our kids being succumbed to a life of mediocrity because they failed to get into the most elite school or social ineptitude because they weren’t in enough playgroups keeps some of us signing them up for more and more.
But what about good books? I hope they’re not a thing of the past, because such a pleasurable diversion would be lost.
I’m not talking about reading on an E-reader. I’m sure they are fabulous, and I’m not naive enough to pretend that e-readers are not slowing becoming a mainstay, but I love to hold the book in my hand, highlight interesting parts, dog-ear the pages, write in the front and back covers. My books are well-worn and well-loved.
Anyway, back to my original point. Where oh where do we find time for reading in our busy lives?
Here are a few things I discovered during my sweet reading excursion. None of these “revelations” will be new to you, but I hope they will inspire you just a little bit to return to a simpler time when reading was so prominent in our households.
Turn off the TV…every now and then.
The drone of the TV can be so distracting, and while I don’t watch a great deal of TV, I find that when I do sit down to watch, it feels as if my mind goes on autopilot. Now, I’m sure for those of you that watch super-intellectual shows this may not happen. I’m almost ashamed to tell you what ridiculous reality TV I watch during my hour of TV a week. Yep. One hour a week. Truthfully, I probably don’t even make it through the entire hour. Anyway, let’s shut that thing off every evening for an hour or so.
I know it’s tempting to pop in a DVD and let Elmo entertain your kids. I’ve done it and still do it when I’m exhausted, but let’s declare at least one day a week a TV free day. Instead, pull out the latest book you’ve been reading or pull out a really good book to read aloud to your little one. Just bask in the splendor of having your own voice and that of your child’s be the only soundtrack in the room. Let the words saturate your mind and that of your child’s. It’s sweet and wonderful, and you’ll find yourself more relaxed by the end of your time together.
Multi-Task.
I have recently discovered the joys of not multi-tasking. I’m training myself to focus on one thing at a time and do that one thing well and completely before I move to the next task. It’s so hard for me to do, but I’m working on it. However, I’ll make an exception if you’re multi-tasking for the sake of literacy. Read during bath time. Read right after bath. Read while eating breakfast together. Have a few books on hand for your little one to thumb through on the car ride from school or daycare. Go ahead, you have my permission to multi-task, but just this once!
Simplify.
I know I said this earlier, but I’m truly amazed at how hectic our lives have become–sometimes by choice and sometimes by necessity. I am a fan of the To Do list, but I am amazed some days when I look at all of the things on the list. Really? Do I expect to complete all of those things in one day? What impact does this over-scheduled lifestyle have on my child?
Childhood should be simple, right? I’ve decided that instead of enrolling in multiple play groups, I’m going to take some time to enrich through connecting reading and life. It may mean that many items get shifted to the next day’s list, but that’s life.
Instead, we’ll probably pick leaves again this weekend and talk about the leaves we picked. I’ll probably try to find a great book about fall that will connect our leaf walks with reading. Thankfully, he’s still way too young to think this is nerdy, so I’m going to take advantage of that.
At the end of this brief period of childhood, I want our little one to say that he laughed a lot, read even more, and played as much as any kid possibly could.
Here’s to more reading and more living!
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